SUMMARY:
- Child: “Dependence”, from the time they were born until about the age of 12, they are physical emotional and dependence outside of ourselves to take care of us. As we progress we move into…
- Adolescence: what is usually around the age of 13 until 19, we move into a stage of development called “Independence”. Then as we continue to progress in our development we move into what he calls…
- Adult: “Interdependence”,
- Mature Adult: “Interdevelopmental”,
- Evolved Adult: “Interconnecteness”.
So one
thing he thinks about each statement is that they have a voice, and the voice
of the child, the dependence is that “I need you”; the voice of the adolescence
that is independence, that voice says “I don’t need you”, and it´s an
unnecessary stage in our evolution as we grow involve; and then we move to the
next stage, into being an adult, we really distingue which is this stage, it’s
kind of moving out from adolescence, it says “yeah, I’m independent on other
people and other people depending on me”, so it’s kind of waking up from
adolescence, from immaturity. Interdevelopmental is the next involve and in
that stage the voice says “I’m so sufficient”, we actually enjoy being around
each other, we make sure so more values of white mind, but the relationship is
very different, it’s not based on needs instead “I really enjoy you, you bring
out the best of me, I bring out the best on you… what can we create together?,
what can we develop together?, what can we collaborate on?”. The last stage
here is the Evolved Adult, what is the recognition of interconnecteness,
perhaps is virtual outlook like “there is no you, there is no me”.
PERSONAL REACTION:
Well, i was thinking about the stages of life, but i don't think Adolescence is not the stage in which you are independent, because i have seen many gyus and girls that are really dependents... Even, people get maturity when they adults, they are also adolescents that are mature.
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